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A few weeks ago I changed my pronouns in my Ao3 and Tumblr profiles to she/they, although it’s a bit more complicated.

See, I usually feel feminine enough that, frex, I quit square-dancing in elementary school the first time they made me dance as one of the boys (because there weren’t enough boys interested in square dancing). On the other hand, by my twenties I was quite happy to play masc characters onstage. I supposed it was a matter of choosing to do it vs. being told to by a teacher.

Now, there’s a third hand to this, which is that there’ve been a couple of periods in my life when I do start wishing I were a man, or inventing a male alter ego. I never do anything about it, because it wears off after four or five years. And I do realize that’s a significant chunk of a person’s life; but it’s hard to know what I can practically do about it, when the pendulum swing has that long an arc.

Anyway it stuck me tonight that my best self-description is “genderfluid, except the fluid in question is the University of Queensland Pitch Drop Experiment.”
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Earlier today I saw and shared on Facebook an interview with William Gibson on the subject of clothing. Gibson was interesting as usual and I recommend you give the whole thing a read, but one bit that stuck with me was a reference to one of his protagonists, a woman "allergic to fashion" who consequently wears only sleek, timeless garments in a limited colour range. This reminded me of the style sheet Darwyn Cooke did for his version of Selina Kyle, a wardrobe of sexy-but-classy-and-practical looks inspired by Katherine Hepburn. Then I started wondering why "practical" had to mean "everything in neutral colours and styled like menswear."

Thing is, I don't believe that's the only way to dress practically. I have a related rant about how back when dresses were everyday wear for most women, they were designed in a range of formality, including day-dresses with the kind of pockets everyone complains that women's trousers don't have, but that now dress design is pretty much restricted to "formal" and/or "sexy."

I mean, the colour of a garment makes a difference if your aim is camouflage; it might make a difference in terms of showing dirt (though a busy print usually hides stains better than a solid in any colour) but a bright or pastel garment is not inherently less tough or warm than a khaki one. So the look is about practicality, but it's also about performing practicality -- it's saying "look how smart and no-nonsense I am in these drab colours and no ornamentation." It's like the flip side of the girls' toys aisle where everything is pink: for this type of heroine, *nothing* can be pink, or even colourful, or flashy.

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